Hi SN,
I'm in my pensive mood again. I miss your sweet voice and your bubbly smiles. How I wish you were here to enjoy our usual silly exchanges of thoughts and laughters!
Several weeks ago, I was coaxed to go for a blind date. I hesitated, I kept on asking myself, 'to go or not to go for it'? On the other hand, I didn't want to disappoint them, for they've been trying their best and it's a noble gesture taken by them to get me out of the doldrum of sadness!
This triggers off a serious of deep thoughts - What's Life? Love? Happiness?
After a long soul-searching journey, I realise that we have only one life, why not we strive hard to live life to the fullest while we are still here. Happiness lies in our hands and we have to make efforts to attain it. It has to be earned. Observing my loving elderly parents caring for each other, it would be great that I can be like them - being able to share that happiness with someone who has a beautiful heart, able to hold hands lovingly and to grow old gracefully together.
To me, 'Love and Happines' is a state of mind that cannot be bought with money, beauty and power. The path to happiness is not laid with roses but filled with challenges and it takes lots of sacrifices, understanding and patience from both parties to overcome it. One cannot take the other party for granted but to be aware of one's sensitivities! Ultimately, when one can feel and attain great peace within yourself, with your partner and family - that's happiness!
I know that it's difficult to find a perfect partner for each other, we need to compromise if we really care for and love each other. I like my partner to be god-faring and caring who is there for each other when the time comes and not someone who takes advantage of each other.
It would be great to have an understanding soulmate who also does not make excessive demands but to give a warm hug and care for each other till our expiry dates!
So, in the search for a soulmate, are we looking for the right person or a balanced relationship where both partners feel comfortable and happy with each other???
After a long soul-searching journey, I realise that we have only one life, why not we strive hard to live life to the fullest while we are still here. Happiness lies in our hands and we have to make efforts to attain it. It has to be earned. Observing my loving elderly parents caring for each other, it would be great that I can be like them - being able to share that happiness with someone who has a beautiful heart, able to hold hands lovingly and to grow old gracefully together.
To me, 'Love and Happines' is a state of mind that cannot be bought with money, beauty and power. The path to happiness is not laid with roses but filled with challenges and it takes lots of sacrifices, understanding and patience from both parties to overcome it. One cannot take the other party for granted but to be aware of one's sensitivities! Ultimately, when one can feel and attain great peace within yourself, with your partner and family - that's happiness!
I know that it's difficult to find a perfect partner for each other, we need to compromise if we really care for and love each other. I like my partner to be god-faring and caring who is there for each other when the time comes and not someone who takes advantage of each other.
It would be great to have an understanding soulmate who also does not make excessive demands but to give a warm hug and care for each other till our expiry dates!
So, in the search for a soulmate, are we looking for the right person or a balanced relationship where both partners feel comfortable and happy with each other???
"Happiness is the KEY to Life itself"
"Happiness is something that you want to remember
and to be shared with loved ones"
"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect!
It means that you are able to look beyond the imperfections!"
It means that you are able to look beyond the imperfections!"
"Happiness is when we are able to give love, to receive love,
to forgive and to touch others!"
I've learned to smile now. Don't worry about me, I've wonderful friends who made have me laugh and smile a alot! "Miss U Like Crazy!"
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